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Communication Patterns Interventionist
Shifting from Conflicts & Misunderstandings → Clarity, Connection, Relief
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Problem > Empathy > Solutions
1:1 Coaching Session with Mair ~
Addressing your specific situation with deep listening, empathy. & solutions.
I am the originator of the Withing Way™, based on Nonviolent Communication. Over the last couple of decades, I’ve been experiencing, simplifying, and practicing three Tools-Not-Rules within The Withing Way™—tools we can choose to use at any moment.The Withing Way™ is not about winning and losing, or who’s right and who’s wrong. It’s about being with ourselves and with each other in moments when it matters most..
I work with people who are successful and capable in many areas of their lives, yet find themselves facing some perplexing communication patterns that haven’t shifted. I specialize in pattern intervention—disrupting habitual communication patterns in real time, in service of connection, not as corrections. As a relational interventionist, I bring clarity to the heart of the matter. Together, we illuminate what is happening beneath the surface, so what has been confusing, baffling, or just plain stuck can shift, resulting in clarity, understanding, and relief—and more satisfying relationships
Are you ready to shift those perplexing, baffling, habitual communication patterns that have been leading to conflicts and misunderstandings?
other's words about Mair...
“I have learned so much over the last 30 years from NVC (Non-Violent Communication). I met Mair along the way & have taken some of her courses. She is one of a handful of the truly great teachers, because she is wry, indirect, humorous, and unforgettable. She can teach it so it sticks in your everyday life. It’s not just a theory. It a practice & endlessly practical. She did not ask me to write this. It’s not only loving, but one of the most useful set of habits & outlooks in my life. And I am 85!” — Bud Frutkin Independent Law Practice Professional
“…she truly lives what she teaches…
She has the ability to make good communication
and self-love accessible
to everyone she comes into contact with.”
— Sadie LeDonna
“…feeling both relieved and hopeful,
with a renewed sense of confidence
that I can communicate in ways
that can help everyone get their needs met.” — Taylor Finney